Dressing, and The Occaision
[Title should read: "Occasion", remove the first "i" ]
KC observes the times have changed and people don't necessarily dress up for every day events as if they were an occasion.
What are your thoughts?
The Wonderful Katie Couric,
Every broadcast you take the time to dress for the occasion -- thank you. I agree with you that clothes have changed and people are not necessarily looking at events as "occasions" to dress for.
KC: Are those days gone?
Constant: No, some of us still dress up for weddings; and when I attend a function. For example, Ellie may spend her time flat ironing her hair – that’s quite attentive to the occasion. [See Reader’s Digest, Feb 2007, page 111; rd.com/couric ]
I don't wear clothes to "make the occasion"; I do what I want and dress how I want; if that's not acceptable, then I don't interact with those people. Their loss. The opposing team might like me buying their hot dogs.
Our appearance and presentation isn’t just clothes, but how we carry ourselves; our insight; the shoes we wear, how we hold our hair, the kind of skin lotion we use, and the gadgets we carry are not necessarily clothes. I can wear shabby jeans and a pair of really nice shoes and feel like I've overdressed, especially with some athletic gear. Gadgets alone send a signal: “I care enough about you to show you I have the very best technology, even though we’re just watching taxis at JFK.”
I'm glad to hear, "I tell my daughters not to judge a book by its cover." Indeed, some shabby book covers protect great wisdom.
"no one wants to look shabby, dog-eared...and ready for the remainder bin." -- If this is a true statement [that "no one" wants to look shabby] -- does that mean if you met someone who didn't care whether they looked shabby or dog eared that this would be something worth celebrating or ignoring?
I do not agree with, "how we dress says something about how we see ourselves -- and how we want OTHERS to see us." Sometimes clothes are just clothes, and I have other things I'd rather think about. Whether someone views me in a certain way because of how I look -- that's their loss.
It depends on who's looking in the mirror; and whether someone is bold enough to deliberately look shabby despite knowing they have alot to offer. Einstein didn't do many turns on the catwalk.
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